Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Plane ride from Purgatory

The other passangers were calling it,"The plane ride from Hell." My personal thought is that if it were the plane ride from Hell, we would have crashed and blown up, burning to death. But we didn't, we were just simply refined and had our faith stretched, our patience expanded, and our stomachs excercised as we fought off severe nausia and motion sickness.

So here's what happened. I fell asleep around 1 or 2 AM on the 8th of December. Part of it was excitement that I got to go home for Christmas. The other part was some girls decided that they were going to go outside my window and express their joy at freedom from school by feral screaming. I guess they forgot that some people still think nighttime is for sleeping.
Anyway, I then woke up at 5 AM the next morning and got ready to go. Nicole drove me to the airport and we hugged goodbye and wished each other a Merry Christmas.
Once at the ticketbooth, the guy was convinced that it would be faster if I changed my flight from flying into Minneanapolis and then flying to Omaha to drive home, to flying into Memphis then Omaha, and then driving home. I said I didn't want to change it but he insisted and I was too tired to argue.
Biggest mistake of the day!!!
I found out later that a flight to Minneanapolis was cancled and the person was pretty sure it was my flight. I can only hope, because it helps ease the intense frustration I felt at the poor dude at the ticket counter.
So I got onto the airplane. Business as usual. Normal safety procedures demonstration, normal introducing yourself to the person sitting next to you and then pulling out your book, normal, "Why on earth are you reading Albert Mohler's latest book for PLEASURE?!" conversation (okay I've never done that before but the conversation that insued was pretty normal. 'What are you doing with your life and why, hunh okay you are interesting but wierd' conversation) etc.
Until we got to Tennessee. Then the nice normal scenery of cool bumpy carpet-like clouds below us and wispy clouds above us changed to complete white of clouds all around us. And they started to get grey. The Captian announced that Memphis was experiancing some storms, but not to worry, we would land soon.
The turbulance started getting bad and my stomach began commenting about how it would like to either land or go home now.
The stewardess or flight attendant or whatever we call them these days then got on and said that we still couldn't land and would be circling for a while.
A half hour later it was announced that we were going to fly into Nashville as we were running out of fuel.
Oh joy.
So we landed in Nashville and parked. We then noticed that there was a plane that had landed before us and three others were pulling up. Not good.
They finally gave us a gate and we pulled in. I was able to get out and call my friend who was going to pick me up at the airport in Omaha and call my parents to let them know what was up. CNN said that flights in Memphis and Baltimore were backed up by an hour. Joy.
I decided that I didn't really want to go to Memphis at that point. I could re-switch my flight and go to Minneanapolis as planned. Unfortunately quite a few other people had the same idea and as soon as I was the next person in line the Captain came running down the gangway and told everyone to get back on the plane.
So we did, and fifteen minutes later we took off again. They had re-fueled and were going to try to land in Memphis.
As soon as we got close to Memphis the clouds went from white to dark gray and the turbulance was terrible. My stomach said if I didn't do something it would go on strike. So I closed my eyes and began praying kind of hard.
We kept that up for what felt like an hour but was probably 15 minutes before the Captian announced that once again we were running out of fuel and would have to find someplace else to land, and Huntsville Alabama would probably be it.
"What, are we doing a tour of all the 'ville' airports in the South?" Someone asked.
So we arrived in Huntsville, Alabama. We were all glad to be on the ground but starting to wonder how we were going to make our connecting flights as it was 11 at that point.
The captains voice crackled on the speaker, "Uhhh.. Ladies and Gentlemen, we will deplane as soon as we can, but no one is answering us at the airport and we don't know if they have a gate for us or not... so as soon as we get ahold of someone, then we'll let you know what we know."
Seriously?!?!
"What, no one noticed there's an extra plane just parked out there?" A businessman asked.
Several minutes later another voice crackled over the intercom.
"This is the manager of the airport. We want to welcome you to Huntsville, Alabama. Right now we are experiancing an unusual situation with the storm in Memphis, and we have a lot of people in our airport who don't belong. So we're gonna just ask you to sit tight till we figure something out."
"They are not going to make us sit here the whole time! How long is that going to be?" people started asking. It was now almost 12 and our flight had left at 7:30 am.
"This is the manager of the airport again. The Captain has requested that we allow you to deplane. So we'll allow you to come up to the gate, but do not I repeat DO NOT enter the main airport or we will not allow you to come back. You don't have a boarding pass for any other flight as you aren't even supposed to have landed here. We will let you know once we know something what your next course of action will be." He then told us about their coffee shop/snack shack/'hot dog stand' where we could get food in the airport and repeated a few warnings about not leaving the terminal we were in.
So we went into the airport and got lunch. Ten bucks for a tea, a water, and a sandwhich. I hate eating in airports. It's SO not worth the money!!
So I ate with two other ladies from my flight and we watched in growing perturbation as CNN announced that the storm system in Memphis was slowly taking over the midwest.
"They had better not leave us here!" One lady commented, and the two began saying how this was the plane flight from hell.
Hmm... no, more like the plane ride from purgatory! We hadn't crashed, we had just all felt somewhat sick during the turbulence and were having beautiful opportunities to practice patience!
I personally stayed in Huntingville (or huntsville, I still can't remember it's name) until 5:30. They were able to change my flight so that I could fly into Cincinnatti and then straight home instead of flying into Omaha. Yay!!
So i arrived around 9:45. At 10:00 I discovered that while I was able to make the flight to Cincinatti, none of my luggage had!! Part of the problem was that I had switched from Northwest Airlines to Delta, and my bags apparently made it to Omaha, where i was originally supposed to go!! So the bags apparently made it to Omaha this morning, and should get here tonight or tomorrow. Usually it's the younger sister stealing clothes from the older sister's closet, but apparently my sister and I are gonna pull a switch-er-oo on the ol' tradition. Fortunately we're built pretty similar she's just taller and has a shorter torso.
Okay I want my own clothes!!

So anyway. There's my latest adventure! I was able to help out a pregnant mom by playing with her six-year old and four-year old (and every once and a while her 13 month old) daughters by coloring with them and playing on the wheelchair with them. So my arms hurt now but we had fun. :-D
So yeah.... there's my wonderful traveling story for this six-month period. Woot woot!

So now I'm home, which is great, and have been shown or am discovering the latest changes and updates and recent homework and cooking victories by my siblings and catching up with mom. Yay!!
And I still need to finish reading Acts through Revelation and write an 8 to 20 page paper on a summary of one of those books before next week. *sigh* Ah well. I sort of brought it upon myself by signing up for so many D-and-J-terms.

More later!

~Princess Ouch~


Friday, December 5, 2008

"Fear in a 'feel-good age'"

"The idea of going through life fearing both God and the consequences of sin seems unattractive in our age where people are so devoted to good feelings. Fear is considered a bad feeling, and therefore people think it is wrong....
Some might say that temporary joy through sin is better than a life of fear and trembling. I respond that this fear and trembling is the gateway to lasting and truly satisfying joy. When we fear the holiness of God and the consequences of sin, we avoid sin. But we do not turn from sin into a vacuum; we embrace life to the full (John10:10. We do not spend the rest of our days wishing that we could have had the experience of the sin we avoided. We are glad that we escaped that enslavement and are now "free indeed" (John 8:34-36). We are glad that God freed us to enjoy Him, for He is not only holy, He is also loving. The Bible says that God delights in us (Ps. 147:11) and that we delight in Him (Psalm 43:4). When we run away from sin, we run into the arms of one whom we love and delight in and who loves us and delights to give us joy. We say with David, "You have made known to me the path of life; You will fill me with joy in Your presence, with eternal pleasures at Your right hand." (Psalm 16:11).
Thus, the fear of displeasing GOd and of the consequences of sin does not take away the enjoyment of life. It is rather the gateway to true enjoyment."

~Ajith Fernando. Acts. The NIV Application Commentary. Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1998. Pages 206-207

Thursday, December 4, 2008

New Testament musings

"But watch thou in all things, endure afflictions, do the work of an evangelist,make full proof of thy ministry. For I am now ready to be offered, and the time of my departure is at hand. I have fought the good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith... only Luke is with me. Take Mark, and bring him with thee, for he is profitable to me for the ministry."
~2 Timothy 4:5-7, 11~


"Wherefore I will not be negligent to put you always in remembrance of these things, though ye know them, and be established in the present truth. Yea, I think it meet, as long as I am in this tabernacle, to stir you up by putting you in remembrance; knowing that shortly I must put off this my tabernacle, even as our Lord Jesus Christ hath shewed me. Moreover I will endeavour that ye may be able after my decease to have these things always in remembrance. For we have not followed cunningly devised fables, when we made known unto you the power and coming of our Lord Jesus Christ, but were eyewitnesses of His majesty."
~2 Peter 1:12-16~


I'm taking a New Testament class as a Mid-term (only we call them J-terms here. Other colleges call them "Intensives" which I think is the best description but no one asked me. Pity)
Speaking of NT2, I really should be studying for that test tomorrow... well, wanted to quick bang out some thoughts before I subjected myself to MORE studying.

I have a lot of friends overseas. This is a blessing and a curse, because for the most part they are all cool people with fun perspectives, wacky senses of humor, and bless my socks off, and are thousands of miles away so we can't keep in contact very often.
(this DOES have something to do with the above Bible verses, I promise you.)
I have one friend in particular who has repeatedly told, asked, commanded, exhorted, and requested that I keep in touch consistantly. However this friend is a person of few words so doesn't return the favor as much as I'd like. Which drives me nuts.
A lot of times I think of how unfair it is that God put all these neat people in my life only to assign us to different parts of the world shortly after.
I've met a lot of cool people here at college too, and the constant thought on my mind is that most of my best friends are called to be Missionaries also, but to completely different parts of the world. I'm going to one of the more 'civilized' and 'safe' cultures, to be honest.
One thing that is often on my mind is, how cool is it that there are so many young people excited about God gathered to this one place for training, encouragement, and new friendships. But it is going to be sad and hard when Graduation day comes and we all go our separate ways.
However, we have this wonderful thing called Email, and Facebook, international-phone cards, the loverly accomadation of Skype, etc.

Back in the 'olden days' of the early church, they didn't have any of that.

A lot of times it's easy for me to think of the 'founding fathers of the faith' to be Saintly men who were above normal emotion and who got it perfect (until they didn't, at which time they got a rebuke from Jesus or had a council about it, straightened everything out, and then went back to being perfect) BUT the passages that I put above show that they were men with deep feelings also. It struck me today as we went over these verses how peaceful they talked about their approaching death. A subject that comes up for us going into Missions a lot is persecution and martyrdom. The other Majors think we're a little wacky amd(whatever the name is for those who like to inflict pain upon themselves).
I personally don't like pain. I try to avoid it at all costs. There's more than one reason why I don't have any tatoos.

The writings of the New Testament, especially in Acts, gives a different paradigm on suffering and pain.
"And they departed from the presence of the council, rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer shame for His name." Acts 6:41

The picture shown us in Acts 2 is so awesome.
"And all that believed were together, and had all things common; and sold their possessions and goods, and parted them to all men, as every man had need. And they, continuing daily with one accord in the temple, and breaking bread from house to house, did eat their meat with gladness and singleness of heart, praising God, and having favour with all the people. And the Lord added to the church daiily such as should be saved."
Acts 2:44-47

Now don't get the wrong idea, I don't believe in Communism. ;-)
But I love how they made sure they all had ENOUGH.
Our society is one of "more more, it's all about me, what MORE can I aim for?"

I have high ambitions but they aren't for MORE. It's for ENOUGH to do what I have been called, which is to go to the 'Least of these' and the 'forgotten' to show Christ's love to them in tangible ways.

So lessons I've been learning through the last week; honor in pain and shame, God's provision for ENOUGH, counting the blessings that He has given, and...
now I have to go study for the test tomorrow on all of this.
*sigh*
My apologies if this email embodies my random global nature. But as I said, this was a MUSING, not a sermon. ;-)Hope it made sense.

~Princess Ouch~

Monday, December 1, 2008

Paradigm towards matrimony

A friend sent me this, and I thought it was a very interesting perspective / approach. I thought it kind of funny in light of some conversations I've been having recently with several different people. Hope you enjoy. :-)

Finding a wife the Romanian wayThe Convention of Hungarian Baptist Churches comprises approximately 250 churches, mainly in the northern region of Transylvania. These churches experienced revival during the 1960s and consequently they are strong spiritually if not materially, with some village churches having 200-300 members.

Pal Borzasi is a young man in his mid-20s, who is in his final year at the Hungarian Baptist Seminary in Cluj-Napoca. Pal spent a year in England in 1996-97 studying at the European Missionary Fellowship's School of Evangelism at Welwyn.

Pal got married in the summer to Anna Kiraly. What is unusual about that? When it comes to Christian courtship and marriage, there is a great difference between Romania and Britain.

The marriage prayer list
Marriage in the Baptist churches in Romania is NOT the culmination of a series of broken relationships. This unbiblical approach is unknown to Romanian Christians. In Romania, young men and women do not normally date or form romantic attachments of any kind before marriage. How then do they find suitable marriage partners?

When a Christian young man wants to get married in Romania, he does not tell anyone of his intention, but sets himself to pray for the Lord's guidance to the right young woman. Often, as in the case of Pal, he may have a list of women whom he would consider possible candidates for marriage. This then forms his prayer list which will be used over the next months. He will trust the Lord to direct him by overruling providence to the woman who will be his choice.

Anna Kiraly
Throughout this initial phase, the young woman knows nothing about this process; in fact, for young Christian women to make known their romantic interest in any young man is forbidden and seen as very worldly. If she does have a liking for any man, then she must leave it with the Lord and wait upon his will. 'But how will you ever find a husband if you are not actively looking for one?' someone asked Anna Kiraly last Christmas. Her reply was: 'I am not looking for a husband. The Lord knows who is best for me and he will bring that husband to me if I wait for his timing and his choice.' To Western ears, sadly, this sounds very strange but perhaps it shows how far from the Lord's ways we have strayed.

When the man is sure that the woman in mind is the wife of his and the Lord's choosing, then - and only then - will he privately approach her and make known to her his thinking. Following this, she has up to three months to pray about the proposed marriage. During this time, the matter is kept secret from all others so that should she refuse him, no disgrace is brought to them or the name of the Lord's people. If she refuses his offer, then no one need ever know about it, and the whole process begins again. So how did Paul and Anna get together?

Last Christmas, Anna, who is studying at EMF, came to stay with us as a family for the holidays. Pal, who was over here for the Carey Ministers' Conference in early January, visited us at Ramsey with his ulterior motive, of which she was blissfully unaware, of proposing marriage to Anna. On December 29, Pal made known his feelings to Anna, who was so shocked she could not eat properly for the next few days but spent the time praying and thinking about whether to accept Pal's proposal. She later confided that in her heart of hearts, Pal had been the one young man that she had wanted as a husband but had considered him to be beyond her expectations. He, on the other hand, confessed that he loved Anna so much that he could not imagine what he would do if she refused him. On New Year's Eve, she accepted his invitation to become his wife. After watching the television pictures of the millennium fireworks on the River Thames, they made the joyous announcement to myself and my wife.

The lessons?
What can we as Christians learn about courtship and marriage from the Hungarian Baptists of Romania?

First, dating as we know it in this country, especially among teenagers, is unbiblical and runs the great risk of encouraging emotional attachments which are too close and very painful to break, and which can spoil fellowship between God's people. It is often the case that men and women have left their churches for another because it is too painful to stay because of the presence of a former sweetheart who is perhaps married to someone else. Socialising and sharing fellowship in groups is a much better way for young men and women to get to know each other, without getting too close, until they are ready to consider marriage. Surely it is not the will of the Lord, who 'hates divorce' (Malachi 2.16), to see his children hurting one another in this deepest of all human relationships, the love of one man for one woman? Note that in Bible times, engagement was seen by the Jews as tantamount to marriage (Matt. 1.18-19).

Secondly, for a Christian man to say to a woman: 'I love you', it must be understood as a proposal of marriage from him. He is saying in effect: 'I love you before the Lord and I want you to be my wife.' A profession of love must always be a proposal of marriage and any man therefore who is not in a position to get married or who is not willing to marry the subject of his affections should restrain himself. Christian young men and women, if you are too young to get married, you are too young to have romantic partners!

Thirdly, as believers, we trust the Lord to overrule in all our circumstances for our good and for his glory. Therefore we should trust him to overrule in this most important of matters, namely, whom we are to marry. If we pray and look to him, then he will direct us to the right person at the right time. So until we are ready to get married, we should certainly be aware of potential wives and husbands but wait upon the Lord's timing and choice. We should not make and break relationships, trampling upon each other's hearts until we find the right person; this is not the way of Christ for his people: 'I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, by the gazelles or by the does of the field, do not stir up love nor awaken love until it pleases.' (Song of Songs 2.7).

Mike Daly, the writer of this article, is the pastor of Great Whyte Baptist Church, Ramsey, Cambridgeshire. Reprinted with permission from Evangelical Magazine of Wales, August/ September 2000.

P.S. Pal and Anna were married in Romania on July 15.

© Evangelicals Now - December 2000

Tuesday, November 25, 2008



The hot sunshine was allowed in the kitchen just enough to give it a bright, cheery feel, without letting in the sharp heat that pounded into the Transylvanian countryside. My home in South Dakota had experienced an extra long winter, and so the coolness of the house was a welcome relief after my walk around the village, which was hot even for the locals.
A kitchen in Transylvania has a unique smell, especially Elizabeth’s kitchen. She is in her eighties, and so her kitchen has had a long time to accumulate the homey smells of coal and wood fires, pig lard, wine, garlic, muddy shoes, dill, and the usual mold that creeps into older homes. Today the smells of pastry dough and raw eggs were added to the mix, along with the wonderful feeling of excitement. Elizabeth’s grandson was coming home for the weekend. She carefully kneaded the pastry dough to just the right consistency while her forty-five year old daughter, Magda, mixed a chocolate syrup to add to part of the dough.
I stood in a corner and watched the two ladies expertly whisk together the scrumptious concoction, trying to stay out of their way. They encouraged me in their soft Hungarian voices to take the seat, but I had a better view standing. I always felt tall amongst them. At five feet six inches, I am the shortest in my family of tall Germanic Americans, of whom the shortest after me is five feet ten inches. Elizabeth was maybe five feet at the most, and Magda couldn’t have been more than five two.
Elizabeth asked in her whispering, aged voice something about the consistency of the dough and Magda answered equally as quietly. Their calm demeanor belied the excitement and nervousness that crackled in the air.
Soon Marta, Elizabeth’s elder daughter, came visiting and brought her daughter-in-law and granddaughter. I was shooed out of the kitchen to go eat lunch with the younger generation while the three older women continued cooking. Rahela and I made some small conversation in Romanian about the grandson who would be returning soon while Sanda babbled in two-year-old delight and tried to fling our lunch around the room. Apparently the little girl found extreme delight in the mysterious substance of sour cream, and kept trying to mix her lunch into the main container with her small plastic spoon. She screamed with frustration when Rahela absent mindedly moved her hands away and relocated the container to a safer and unreachable spot on the table.
After the meal Sanda was taken to the bedroom for a nap and I returned to Elizabeth’s kitchen. Magda had yielded the cooking surface to Marta, who was rolling out a delicate dough and was sprinkling some kind of sweet cheese, nuts, sugar and unsweetened cocoa onto the surface before rolling it up into a kind of jelly role type pastry. I inched closer to the table when no one was looking and snatched a quick taste of the dough. Mmm, it was delicious!
Soon the smells of the baking pastry floated around the room and I was offered a sample of the finished product. I rolled my eyes in mock ecstasy and licked my lips, earning a satisfied chuckle from the chefs.
“Meshaysh feenom.” I said, raising my piece of pastry. The best translation I can give you of the Hungarian compliment is, “Excellent worthy of the legend.” A bit melodramatic perhaps, for a mere country kitchen’s pastry. But first off, you must understand that Hungarian is a poetic, melodramatic language. And second, Elizabeth and her daughters are just very good cooks. Worthy of legend.

Friday, November 21, 2008

College-isms

Since break is but a mere three days away, I figured I should post a dictionary on here for those I will be visiting, since apparently I have picked up on a few college colloquialisms. These phrases and idioms are most likely meaningless anywhere else besides my college campus, so if English is not your native language, don't say this anywhere but this college or to me. Hehe.

Boo-yah: An expression of exultation, triumph, victory. Can be said with pure rejoicing or as a snide condescending retort when one has defeated another in a debate. Also used as somewhat of a synonym to "Eureka"

woot woot: no, not 'woop woop'. It's WooT wooT. Or just wootwoot. A purely celebratory term. Generally used when discussing the completion of an assignment or a discovery of unexpected financial surplus.

I'm gonna tell Al: This refers to Dr. Albert Mohler, the president of our college and the rising star soon suspected to take the place of Reverend Billy Graham. Being American college students and somewhat full of ourselves, we joke that we all know the Mohler family personally and are 'their favorite.' Any behavior we find shocking, innapropriate, or even just silly, we threaten to tell our dear President.

Whoa, are you speaking in tongues?: Usually said when someone - generally an over fatigued person who is generally intelligent but due to over work and intense exams has lost their gift of speech - begins stuttering, stammering, spluttering, or babbling. Or when a students begins showing off and talking in their second or third language. Since we have a lot of Missions-minded kids here, or children of missionaries and foreign students, and most of us have respectable tempers that cause us to splutter from time to time, this phrase is used often.

Ring by spring: This is a campus that is very pro-matrimony. As of this moment, there are seventeen couples getting married this december from this campus, and more getting married in the summer. The student body is around 800. Therefore, the joke is that when one comes here, one can expect the "Ring by Spring" scholarship. That is, buying or receiving but ultimately deserving a marriage ring by the beginning of summer at the latest.

Seminarian: A student currently enrolled in the Seminary ajoined to our campus who is desperate for a spouse. This is not to be confused with a Seminary Student, an entirely different breed altogether. Seminarians can be distinguished from Seminary students by the fact that they are usually male targeting College students, who walk around with guitars and recite poetry or write songs. These songs are rehersed on unsuspecting female college students who unwittingly decided to enjoy the weather and study outside. The best plan when dealing with Seminarians is never travel alone and avoid the benches strategically placed all over campus like the plague. Seminarians love it when college students sit down at these benches, leaving a wide space for them to plant themselves. Usually the Seminarians will attempt conversation by asking "if there are any brothers in Christ you'd like prayer for"

Well, he IS BTS: BTS refers to Biblical and Theological Studies majors. They are immersed in theology and doctorine, and usually cannot help but spout some newly-aquired gem of wisdom about these subjects in their discussions. A good time of year to avoid them is mid term and also finals week. Other than that they are very pleasant people, as long as you can avoid any controversial subjects in doctorine or theology. Female BTS students are entirely different, as they are few and far between and have won the admiration and support of most other females on campus for venturing into a male-dominated major.

She's missions: Also refers to a major on campus, the International Missions major. Apparently we are the "Mission Impossible" crowd, the dearly beloved, much needed but slighty (or severely) eccentric branch of the family. Appreciated, but not always acknowledged in public. Apparently the ladies in the major are viewed as incapable of wearing skirts above the knee with hose and heels as it goes against their genetic make-up. This department is the one that is always expected to consume the unwanted or overly spicey food and enjoy it, and kill any bugs that invade the area without complaint. Again, it is supposed by students in other departments of study that this is merely part of the Missions Majors genetic make up.

That's all for now. Fellow college students from my campus, feel free to email me and let me know if I've gotten any definitions wrong or if I've forgotten any.

Cheers,
~Princess Ouch~

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Martin Luther King Jr's Dream

I am probably going to be getting emails about this article too. However, you must bear in mind that I'm an international Missions major at a conservative Christian college, and this is how we think about things.

God bless the USA!

~Princess Ouch~

Martin Luther King Jr.'s Dream for the American Church
What the election says about our progress and decline.
by Skye Jethani


Amazing. How else can you describe what happened last week when Barack Obama became the first African American elected President of the United States? However you voted, whatever your politics, the election reveals something about the progress of our society. As George W. Bush said the morning after the election, it "showed a watching world the vitality of America's democracy and the strides we have made toward a more perfect union."

Amid the reflections there have been numerous references to Martin Luther King Jr.'s pioneering civil rights movement and his "dream." One Chicago news commentator on election night said the day King delivered his famous speech on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial he could not have known that a two year old boy in Hawaii would become the fulfillment of his dream. That got me wondering—is Barack Obama really the fulfillment of King's dream?

I've been fascinated by Martin Luther King Jr. since seminary—not just as a civil right leader, but as a preacher. In 1967 he told a Chicago congregation, "Before I was a civil rights leader, I was a preacher of the gospel. This was my first calling and it still remains my greatest commitment." It's King's powerful prophetic proclamation of the gospel into our American reality that I've been drawn to. It is only within this larger calling that we can make sense of his civil rights work. For King, combating the injustice of segregation and Jim Crow fell under the umbrella of gospel proclamation.

I've read a number of books about King including his autobiography (which I highly recommend), King Came Preaching by Mervyn A. Warren, and right now I'm reading
A Knock at Midnight: Inspiration from the Great Sermons of Reverend Martin Luther King, Jr. The book contains a sermon he preached early in his career titled, "Paul's Letter to American Christians." Showing his creative communication, King composed a modern day epistle in the voice of Paul both praising and warning the American church.

The letter is a glimpse into the values and convictions of MLK, and it might be surprising to discover that his focus isn't just racial justice. In fact, he frames the letter by contrasting the scientific progress of America with its moral decline. I was struck by how Dallas Willardian King sounds. He says,

"It seems to me that your moral progress lags behind your scientific progress ….Through your scientific genius you have made of the world a neighborhood, but through your moral and spiritual genius you have failed to make it a brotherhood."
King then warns against giving one's loyalty to the country:

"Your ultimate allegiance is not to the government, not to the state, not to nation, not to any manmade institution. The Christian owes his ultimate allegiance to God, and if any earthly institution conflicts with God's will it is your Christian duty to take a stand against it."
That's a timely word as many Christians (black and white) find themselves pouring their hopes (or fears) into President elect Obama. Where is our hope? Where is our loyalty? Where is our allegiance? No doubt Martin Luther King Jr. would be celebrating the election of Barack Obama, but his dream transcended any single leader, any one nation, and any earthly power.

King's epistle to the Americans goes on to diagnose the dangers of materialism:

"I am afraid that many among you are more concerned about making a living than making a life. You are prone to judge the success of your profession by the index of your salary and the size of the wheelbase on your automobile, rather than the quality of your service to humanity."
How many of our churches need to hear that message today? This is where King reveals his prophetic gifting most clearly. Many today assume that MLK was a single-issue preacher; always railing against racial injustice. Nothing could be farther from the truth. King's commitment to the gospel illuminated all kinds of sins within the American church, and while we've clearly made progress on the racial front I wonder if we haven't fallen deeper into the grip materialism.

MLK does include a lengthy section in his epistle about disunity within the church—a topic also important to Paul two millennia ago. He denounces competition between denominations as well as racial segregation. This sermon includes his famous remark about 11am Sunday morning being the most segregated hour of the week. In response King also outlines his belief in non-violence and the conviction that love stands "at the center of the cosmos." And then we discover these amazing words about the purpose of life:

"I still believe that standing up for the truth of God is the greatest thing in the world. This is the end of life. The end of life is not to be happy. The end of life is not to achieve pleasure and avoid pain. The end of life is to do the will of God, come what may."
So, I'm left with this question: What was Martin Luther King Jr.'s dream? And was it fulfilled last week when Obama won more than 270 electoral votes?

The election of an African American to the White House certainly fulfills part of MLK's dream. He wanted to see a society where people would be judged by the content of their character rather than the color of their skin. Obama, who described himself earlier this week as a "mutt," gives all of us with a mixed racial heritage and a funny name hope.

But MLK dreamt of so much more than simply an African American president. He wanted to see an America as morally good as it is technologically advanced. He hoped to see a society that valued people more than things; life more than making a living. And he longed for a community of Christians who valued God's will ahead of personal comfort. To see these elements of King's dream fulfilled we're going to need more than presidents—we're going to need a new breed of gospel preachers.
Skye Jethani is the managing editor of Leadership and a teaching pastor at Blanchard Alliance Church in Wheaton, Illinois.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Bubble gum and peanut butter morning

This is a highly fictionalized account of a childhood memory I used for my cause-and-effect paper for English class. Hope you enjoy. Am expecting emails of protest from my mom and sister here shortly... :-) But I SAID it was HIGHLY fictionalized!!
~Princess Ouch~

BUBBLE GUM AND PEANUT BUTTER
MORNING

Usually gum provides pleasant experiences. Bubble competitions, snapping noises, jaw exercise, bragging rights can all be done with nothing more than a simple piece of gum; and possibly a friend or two. However, one little girl did not have such a pleasurable experience. In fact, this little girl’s experience was nothing less than traumatic. It scarred her and effectively kept her away from bubble gum for most of her life. Her trauma has kept her from experiencing the bliss of blowing a bubble the size of her head. It has kept her from allowing her competition to fully realize its ridiculousness when friends pull gum out of their mouth into long strings and compare it to see who has created the longest and the thinnest. It has kept this poor child from learning the discipline of not snapping her gum in the middle of an exceptionally long and boring Church service.
This girl used to love gum. It was one of her best friends. It helped her through very boring and trying times. But one fateful day, the little girl woke up to find that her sister had done something horrible. It was something both girls had been warned against. Their mother had pleaded with them never to commit this fateful mistake. The sister did what the girl had experienced nightmares over. The sister had fallen asleep with gum in her mouth, and the gum had gotten into her hair.
The sister had very fine, wispy blond hair. Not only was it fine and wispy, but there was a lot of it on the child’s head. The gum had fallen out of the sister’s mouth while she slept and had become as thoroughly matted, twisted, tangled and stuck in the hair as is conceivably possible.
The girls’ mother was a creative and resourceful woman, and rather than simply snipping off the long, white-gold tresses of the sister, she made her way to the pantry and drew out a jar of peanut butter. The wise, resourceful woman then began to slather the sister’s hair with peanut butter, and then massage it into the tangled tresses. As she massaged, she began murmuring to the little girl the reasons behind her warnings in the past, and how she should now understand to never again fall asleep with gum in her mouth.
However, the little sister was still very young. She didn’t like having the slimy goo massaged into her hair. She didn’t like having the knots in her hair pulled at as the mother tried to grease all ends of the tangle. She didn’t like having to sit still. She didn’t like having to listen to a speech in which her imperfections were expounded upon. She desperately wanted the mess in her hair gone now so she could go play fairy tales so she could forget that she was a fallible human being subject to the normal laws of gravity and physics like the rest of humankind. So she began to sob and pull away, stomping her little feet and slapping away the mother and scissors with her little hands.
However, not only was the mother wise and resourceful, but she was of German descent and not the kind to put up with nonsense. She was a born leader and quickly let the little sister know in no uncertain terms that such behavior was detrimental to cleaning her hair. After the peanut butter was finished being administered, she could take a nice bath and both the gum and the goo would be washed away.
The little sister was not one to be soothed with promises she was certain were vain and simply meant to pacify her for another’s ulterior motives. Being of German descent herself, the little girl began a crusade in which she would prove to the world at the tender age of five that she would not be taken in with idle promises. Those who sought to deceive her would face dire consequences!
The little girl watched in horror as the mother and sister began a brief power struggle. It ended suddenly when the mother reached for a large pair of scissors and threatened to shear the little girl’s hair to a length that was tragically short. Now the little girl’s hair was her pride and joy, the subject of many compliments and a necessary prop for many princess parties. It could not be lost. So after a final battle cry of rage, she submitted herself to her mother’s administrations. Though not without the occasional sob that the battle of power had once again been lost, and her will once again thwarted.
In the end, despite all her attempts with the peanut butter, the mother was forced to make a few small snips to get the mass of gum out of the sister’s hair. The peanut butter had made the gum slippery and slightly more manageable than before; but it had also slightly dissolved the gum so that the mess had spread, creating new tangles.
After two hours, the little sister walked out of the bathroom with her hand confidently in that of her mother’s, both retiring to the kitchen for a hard-earned cookie and glass of milk. The sister’s hair was in a slightly different style than it had been the night before, and the mother’s hair turned gray slightly sooner than it may have, had the morning’s experience not taken place. The mother held the little sister on her lap, the two smiling and talking about the nice little things five year old girls talk with their mother about. If one hadn’t been witness to the event, one would not have known that anything traumatic had happened.
But the little girl had witnessed it. The little girl had seen the horrifying effects bubble gum can have on a girl’s hairstyle, her relationships, her sense of identity, her plans for the future. Her little sister’s entire morning had been consumed by tears and peanut butter, all for the sake of an unfortunate piece of gum. The little girl vowed to never live through such an experience. The little girl promised herself that she would never be the victim of a gum and peanut butter morning. But she could find no way to guarantee that she could avoid succumbing to fatigue one day while chewing gum. As a result, the girl avoided gum altogether. Friends offered tasty morsels, games were organized, competitions ensued, but the little girl remained true to her conviction and did not chew gum. She succeeded in her goal; she never fell asleep with gum in her hair. But one must wonder if the fear that held her captive for so long cheated her of the character she could have built through such an experience. The trust she could have learned to place in her mother and the better relationship in her teenage years that would have resulted. The fine artistic talents of snapping and bubble blowing that she could have cultivated.
Yes, the girl was safe and avoided catastrophe. But it begs the question, was it really worth it? All these fine childhood experiences lost because of one traumatic morning with peanut butter and bubble gum in a sister’s hair.

Saturday, November 8, 2008

Becoming Esther


I hope this isn't violating any copyright laws. I just discovered this article on a CD of Paul Washer sermons a friend gave me, and thought it was amazing. :-) I hope it challenges, convicts, and encourages you as much as it did me.
God bless!
~Princess Ouch~

Becoming Estherby Charo & Paul Washer

"Before a girl's turn came to go in to King Xerxes, she had to complete twelve months of beauty treatments prescribed for the women, six months in oil of myrrh and six with perfumes and cosmetics. And this is how she would go to the king..." Esther 2:12-13

I have always been amazed at the kind of preparation that the future queen Esther had to go through before she was able to come before King Xerxes. Would any of us want to go through twelve months of beauty treatments before meeting the man of our dreams? Probably not, but then again, imagine the possibilities. One year set aside for one sole purpose - becoming all you can be for the one you love the most. Precious time to cultivate beauty, to make an investment in education and etiquette, to strengthen virtue, and build character.

The preparation of Esther reminds me of that precious time between the awakening of desire in a young woman's heart to share her life with a mate and the moment she walks down the aisle. For many, this time of preparation is seen as nothing more than a time of waiting. Single women often see themselves as sitting on the shelf while life passes them by, or as sitting on the bench while others play the game. They do not realize that they are wasting the most important time of their lives, they are robbing themselves of great joy and reward, they are robbing their future husbands of a more virtuous woman, and they are robbing God of a servant through whom He desires to do great things.

As Esther had to be prepared before she could be queen of an entire realm, so the woman must be prepared before she can embark on one of the most important and difficult callings in life - marriage and motherhood. Esther had to learn the ways of the kingdom to which she belonged, she had to learn the manners of court life, the intellectual, emotional and spiritual challenges of high position. To put it simply, Esther had to be transformed from a young lady into a queen before she could wear the title and fulfill the role. In the same way, the single Christian woman must learn the ways of the Kingdom of Heaven before she ever unites with the one that God is preparing for her. She must be prepared intellectually, emotionally and spiritually, not by court attendants in some pagan temple, but by God Himself, His Word, and by other godly women who have been prepared before her.

Singleness is not a waste of time or a sitting on the sidelines, but a time that God has set aside especially for the woman, to make her into what He wants her to be, and to use her in ways that just might be impossible after marriage. Singleness is a time in which a woman is to cultivate the virtues that pertain to being a woman of God, so that she can offer to her future husband and the world something more than just a pretty face.

Remember in your singleness that you are not the only one single, but your future husband is passing through the same stage as you. Would it not be a terrible thing to finally meet the man who is to become your husband only to find out that he has used his singleness to serve God and to prepare himself to be a better husband for you. And yet you did not use the freedom of your singleness to serve the Lord, nor did you take advantage of the training that God offered you? Would it not also be a terrible thing to realize that your husband spent his days as a single man praying daily for your needs and the work of God in your life, while you neither prayed for him, nor responded to the grace of God that was given you as a result of his prayers.

It is a wonderful thing when God blesses a woman with a husband. That special someone who is .just perfect. for her in that he has been carefully and thoughtfully designed by God to be united as one with her. It is such a joy for the woman to look back and remember how God enabled her to wait on Him and that He was faithful to bless. It is still an even greater joy for her to know that her time as a single woman was also a time of seeking God and being faithful to Him and His purpose. That she did not for one moment wish to flee that state, but desired only to trust in God and wait upon His gracious sovereignty.

By no means is it a tragedy to be a single Christian woman, but the way of the world has once again infiltrated Christianity with the false idea that it is. One of the greatest lies is that if you do not "have someone" or are not "actively looking", there is something wrong with you. Another lie is that the single woman should be dating around as though looking for a husband were the same as shopping in a mall. Still another even stronger lie is that the single woman should be giving her affections away indiscriminately so that she may be more "experienced" and know what to do when she finally finds the man of her choice. My dear Christian, it is a lie and an affront to God to say that experience is the best teacher, when in fact it is God who is the best teacher, and though the world's motto is "live and learn," the Bible's advice is "learn and live," You do not need to be experienced, you only need to be knowledgeable of what God has said and obedient to it. You should not be looking for the man of your choice, but should be waiting on the man of God.s choice. And when he comes, it will not be past experiences that will make your marriage work, but past chastity, purity, and godliness. We should hide our faces from the ways and experiences of this wicked world and look upon only those things that God has placed in the path He has prepared for us.

God knows exactly what you need and He even knows the desires of your heart better than you do. God loves surprises. He does not want you to be looking for your husband, He wants to bring him to you, and probably at a time you least expect it. If you disobey this advice, as so many other women before you, and take it upon yourself to look for a mate, you may find someone, but chances are that someone you find will not be the right one.

As women, our nature desires the company and companionship of a man. This is from God and therefore good. But at the same time, we are wrong to think that death will be the result if this need is not fulfilled. Needing another as a companion is not like needing to take your next breath of air. That is, you can survive without companionship, at least until God has done His perfect work in you. Remember the Scripture, "God is faithful; He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear." (I Corinthians 10:13)

I have found that there are two primary reasons why someone .desperately. needs someone else. First of all, it is because they do not know God as they should. Is God not the God of all comfort? Is not Christ the exalted Lord who fills all things everywhere? Then why do we complain about how empty and alone we feel? Could it be that God extends our time of singleness so that we might find our life in Him and learn to be complete in Him? If we seek to be married because we feel that a husband will fill our lives or will in some way make us complete, we will be sorely disappointed in our marriage. No man, no matter how Christ-like could ever take the place of God in our lives, to think such a thing is pure idolatry. If we are not filled by God now and complete in Christ in the present, then not even a marriage made in heaven will be able to change our emptiness.

The second reason for desperately needing someone in our lives is plain selfishness. When we need someone in order to feel loved, or when we need someone so that our feelings of loneliness might dissipate, then we are wanting marriage for all the wrong reasons. Marriage should not be looked upon as an opportunity to have our needs met, but as an opportunity to meet the needs of another. If we have not learned to take our own needs to God, then we will probably overwhelm our husbands with our own needs and be unaware of his. I have known Christian women who spent their days consumed with their own needs and constantly lamenting about why God had not brought someone into their life. But why should God entrust a godly man to a woman that is absorbed in herself and her own needs, and does not use the freedom of her singleness to serve God and prepare herself for His purposes? Such a woman would have little to offer a godly husband!

My dear friend, being single, like being married should be considered a very special and enjoyable time in the providence of God. It should not be considered a mere circumstance or a curse from which one should try desperately to flee. Being single is a time to learn of God and of ourselves, a time to discover who we are in Christ, and to grow in Christlikeness. It is a time to be zealous for good works and involved in ministry to others. Being single has a magic of its own that should be enjoyed in its time because once passed it may not return. There is nothing quite so sad as a woman now married who regrets what she could have been and done with her life while single. All was lost for the sake of hurrying to be married without consideration for the plan or work of God.

Every season in life has a beauty and wonder of its own. My prayer for all single Christian women is that they might enjoy their time in spite of the lies of the world. That they might be demanding and not settle for anything less than the perfect will of God. That they might wait patiently on God who is the giver of every good and perfect gift. That they might be like Esther, using whatever time God deems necessary to make them beautiful on the inside and out.

“... She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” Proverbs 31

An article first published in HeartCry magazine Volume 3, January 1998

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

A little political... in a good way

10 Ways to Pray for Barack Obama

Whether you are happy about this week’s election results or not, all Christians must unite in prayer for our new president. Please don’t forsake this responsibility.

It’s over. We’ve reached the end of the longest, angriest and most nerve-wracking presidential campaign in American history. Finally the “I approved this message” ads have ceased. The endless robot phone calls have stopped ringing. The debates, and the annoying post-debate comments from “experts,” are history—until the next election cycle.


More than half the nation is celebrating today while others are mourning. We are a divided nation, split into unhappy fragments by abortion, gay marriage, global warming, a failed economy and an unpopular war. Those who voted for Barack Obama have claimed a historic victory; some on McCain’s side are already looking for scapegoats. Politics is politics.

But when I got up this morning, I turned all my attention to the fact that Jesus Christ is still on the throne. His government is what is most important. Regardless of who sits in the Oval Office, the Bible says “the nations are like a drop from a bucket” to God (Is. 40:15, NASB). That includes the United States. We may boast about being “the greatest nation on earth,” but He who sits in heaven has a different perspective. Let’s take a big sigh of relief now and remember that God is sovereign.

"But when I got up this morning, I turned all my attention to the fact that Jesus Christ is still on the throne. His government is what is most important."


I’ll admit this election did not turn out as I had hoped. I supported McCain primarily because I am pro-life and I prefer his small-government mindset. But now that the election is over, I’m not going to harbor bitterness toward Obama supporters or go into attack mode. Obama has been elected president of this country, and that means I have a biblical responsibility to support him in prayer—even if I challenge his policies.

Whether you voted for Obama or not, you need to pray for him. Here are 10 ways I plan to intercede for him regularly:

1. Pray for Obama’s protection. We already know that some weird, neo-Nazi fanatics in Tennessee plotted to kill Sen. Obama during his campaign. Let’s pray that racist hatred is not allowed to spread. Let’s cancel every assassin’s bullet in the name of Jesus. May civility triumph over bigotry.

2. Cover his wife and daughters in prayer. It is not easy to live under constant media scrutiny. Pray for Obama’s wife, Michelle, and their two daughters, Malia and Natasha, as they face invasive cameras, nosy reporters, maniacal fans and dangerous enemies. Obama is not only a politician but also a husband and a father.

3. Pray that Obama will govern with God’s wisdom. God rewarded Solomon because he asked for wisdom instead of wealth, long life or vengeance on his enemies (see 1 Kings 3:11-12). Pray that Obama will order his priorities like that. Despite Solomon’s tragic character flaws, his legacy was wisdom. We can ask God to give our president the same grace.

4. Ask God to keep our president humble. Many great American leaders became corrupt after they moved to Washington. The fatal attraction of fame, wealth and power proved irresistible. The only thing that will guard a man or woman from this pitfall is humility. May God deliver President Obama from the curse of pride.

5. Pray for wise and righteous advisers to surround him. Godly leaders cannot do their job alone. Even the best leaders have failed because they trusted the wrong people. Pray that Obama will not select his counselors based on party, race, pedigree or political cronyism but on godly character and proven wisdom. Pray also that he will not allow secret traitors into his inner circle.

6. Ask for the spirit of reconciliation. Some segments of our deeply divided society want nothing to do with Obama now that he has won the presidency. Even some Christians will be tempted to harbor resentment and nurse political grudges throughout his term in office. Pray that God will grant forgiveness and healing so that leaders on all political levels can have constructive dialogue.

7. Pray that Obama will adopt pro-life convictions. Many politicians have changed their views on key issues while in office. In the 1800s some leaders who favored slavery later denounced it. In the 1950s some who opposed racial integration later became champions of it. Even though Obama won approval from many voters because he sanctions abortion, God could soften and change his heart.

8. Bind all evil forces assigned to manipulate our president. The specter of Islamic terrorism looms over the United States, and dark forces are ready to infiltrate. Our only hope lies in prayer to the God who is able to expose and outwit the schemes of the wicked. This is truly a time for spiritual warfare, and intercessors must not come off the wall in this hour! Pray that no foreign government, terrorist organization or demonic principality will use Obama as a tool. We must stand strong against the spirit of antichrist that promotes dictatorship, persecution of Christians and hostility toward Israel.

9. Pray that Obama’s door will remain open to the church. The loudest voices of secular culture—from Bill Maher in Hollywood to atheists in academia—would be happy if religion were removed from public life. Pray that Obama, who claims to have a personal faith in Jesus Christ, will unapologetically welcome Christian leaders into his company and seek their counsel. And pray that false religious leaders (who claim to know Christ but deny His power) will not have his ear.

10. Pray that our nation will enjoy God’s peace and blessing during the Obama administration. The apostle Paul instructed early believers to pray for all in authority “so that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and dignity” (1 Tim. 2:2, NASB). God’s will is for America to experience peace and prosperity so that we can continue to export the gospel to the nations. This must happen whether a Democrat or a Republican is in the White House. As we cry out for God’s mercy on our wayward nation, pray that He will allow us to be a light to the world as we finance global missions, feed and heal the world’s poor and share Christ’s love at home and abroad.

J. Lee Grady is editor of Charisma.

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Monday, October 27, 2008

Work on a Farm


Wrote this for English class for my example paper. Hope you enjoy :-)


Work on a Farm

Work on a farm is hard and never finished. This is an international truth. While many believe that a farm is a romantic place full of cute fluffy kittens and sweet lambs, it is in fact a virtual disaster zone. It doesn’t matter how put together, neat, organized and quaint it may look up on first inspection. The reality is that a farmer never experiences the satisfaction of saying to himself, “I’m done with this week’s work. I can finally take a break this weekend in good conscience.” No, if the poor farmer has somehow miraculously finished his goals for this week, either he knows he should tackle next week’s chores to ‘get ahead’ and actually make some profit from his lifestyle, or some kind of natural (or unnatural) disaster strikes, creating more work; either undoing whatever the farmer accomplished or rendering it obsolete.
This was the case on a dairy farm in New Mexico. Hundreds of cows serenely chewed their cud in large plots sectioned off by PVC pipes used as fences, or escaped the hot sun in aluminum, three-sided barns. They appeared as though they hadn’t a care in the world. The Hispanic employees of the dairy however were always hurrying and scurrying to and fro, either cleaning the milking equipment (a never ending chore as the cows were milked in rotation several times a day) or cleaning out stalls (which was never finished as long as living, healthy cows were around to create ‘messes’) or helping a sick cow recover from some bovine malady. There was of course the occasional collapse in fencing which required immediate attention or some dramatic episode in which a mother cow died and her calf needed extra care, all creating extra work for the employees. The owner of the dairy, a Dutchman by the name of Rinke, was a very quiet, laid back man of six feet two inches and maybe one hundred and fifteen pounds. He towered over his employees but was very invested in making sure everyone was well cared for. How the Hispanic men understood Rinke’s Texan-influenced-Dutch-drawl was beyond me, and how he understood the quick staccato Spanglish of his employees continued to be a mystery. However, they all had a system that each appreciated, and encouraged each other in their never-ending tasks.
Another example of never ending farm work was the quaint village home I visited while in Transylvania. This was a farm on a much smaller scale than the New Mexican dairy. The family only owned about three acres of land as opposed to the several hundred acres the dairy was on. The family raised most of their fruits and vegetables and all of their meat on the small plot of land they owned. It was a beautiful example of efficiency. The chickens were at times allowed to run through the gardens munching on whatever bugs were harmful to the steadily growing crops. The pigs were very content in a tiny shack near the garden and took up little room. The grandparents practically lived outside. The grandfather was constantly either shucking corn for the animal’s consumption or chopping wood for the stoves when his help wasn’t being employed by his son-in-law, who not only helped maintain the farm but had a job as a security guard in the village. During the summer months the grandmother maintained the garden and fields, always stooped over weeding and carefully maintaining the grape vines as she walked past them on her way back to the house. Her daughter was the housekeeper-chef extraordinaire, keeping the house meticulously clean despite the mud constantly being tracked into the house and rain creating cracks in the stucco walls or holes in the roof. They were a very happy foursome, all working together to keep the place smoothly running. The seasons each had their designated chores and it was a cheerful circle of life that they lived in. It was efficient, but constant, never ending work.
One final argument proving the validity of the idea that farm work is never ending and hard is my own personal experience of the last five years on a small acreage in South Dakota. When we first moved there, the place was a mess. The previous owners had decided that it was too expensive to take garbage to the local dump and had instead thought it a brilliant idea to bury their trash in shallow graves all over the place. After a hard winter with heavy snows, these mass graves of unwanted objects and deteriorating trash bags were brought to the surface. As a result, the first year of our occupancy on said farm was spent in cleaning up other people’s messes. A wonderful opportunity for training on the mission field, one might argue, however at the time it was simply thought of as a rude move by the previous owners, who made quite a lot of money when selling us their mess. After fixing up the place somewhat, we thought it would be a good experience for the kids growing up to have some livestock. So in irrational group insanity, we bought ducks, geese, chickens, goats, and sheep all within a matter of months. The result was fairly catastrophic. Garden beds which were just beginning to perk up the landscape were ravaged by the fowl, the goats decided the newly-planted fruit trees were far preferable to the weeds, and the sheep were just stupid and tried to kill themselves in every way imaginable. After finally realizing our lesson, the livestock which hadn’t somehow killed itself was all sold at auction. We then set about the task of repairing the discouraging mess that was our landscaping. While garden beds can be established, they still require constant work. Weeding, mulching, fertilizing, planting, and pruning do not stop. Harvesting one’s own food is a wonderful experience but unless one eats it all at once it must be preserved through canning, drying, freezing, etc. A satisfying experience, I say, although still time consuming and never ending.
Life on a farm can be charming, rewarding, and a fun experience. It can also be harrying, hard work, stressful, and downright awful. In either case, it requires hard work. It is not for the faint of heart. It is not for those who like to have clean nails or who believe that flip flops should be worn at all times. It is not for those who think that sheep are cute animals that will peacefully graze unattended in a large field with a delightful brook running through it. No indeed. The sheep will try to drown themselves first chance they get and probably break their legs on the banks of the brook on their gleeful way towards death. Flip flops are hazardous to health on farms as there are rusty nails everywhere and animals who like to stomp on human feet. One’s nails are cracked, chipped, broken, and full of dirt from the garden or the animal pen most days. Oh yes, work on a farm is hard and never finished, although it can be rewarding and adventurous.

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Summer memory


"Do you want to come to my house?" She asked shyly.

Usually not a significant request. People invite each other over all the time, especially in that culture. But this was an exceptional situation. She was a Gypsy, and I was an American. Most of the people in the village didn't know how I had found them or what I was doing there. Yet there I was, shaking their hands, eating their food, drinking their coffee, playing with their children.
For the Americans reading this, Gypsies - or Roma as they call themselves - are on the 'bottom of the totem pole' of Romania. Their villages are avoided and they are usually treated with distain, mistrust and contempt. They are many Roma who do their fair share to earn such treatment. But there are many Roma who are decent human beings just trying to make their way in the world like everyone else.
Lemona had just become a Christian a few days ago and had soon afterwards led her husband in the Sinner's Prayer as well. The family had experianced amazing Spiritual release from Demonic oppression and were excitedly learning more about Jesus.



Silvana, one of the Romanian Missionaries I was working with, was speaking with some other women of the village, and I excitedly accepted Lemona's invitation. We walked up the hill and over the small wooden bridge deeper into the settlement of tiny Gypsy houses. Girls called out greetings and women asked where we were going. Lemona gave vague answers - the competition between the women of the village was high and Lemona wanted to be sure she had 'first dibs' on whose house I spent time at. We were having a Bible study for the women soon after that, and there wasn't enough time for me to see everyone's home.



The small one-room cottage wasn't significantly different from any of the other homes I had seen. Tapestries covered the walls and Christmas hangings were tucket in conspicuous corners. I thought the decorations were a little humorous, as June had just started. A young man shyly allowed himself to be gently pulled forward by Lemona.
"This is my man." She said with a gentle smile and a hint of pride in her voice. I shook hands with him and he smiled faintly.
I looked towards the doorway and noticed a small crowd had gathered, giggling and whispering about the "gadjo" or foreigner who was talking with Roma and visiting their houses. Two little kids scampered across the floor and Lemona asked if I would take pictures of her family. I smiled and said sure, and the next thing I knew we were having a full blown photo op with the neighbor, the aunt, the friend, and another kid. The men ducked out while they had an escape while the women and I giggled,trying to get the kids to cooperate and hold still while we snapped their picture.



I soon excused myself and said it was time for the Bible study. Lemona nodded with a smile and shooed everyone out of her small one room cabin. We walked out into the sunshine and I told her to go ahead while I ran to invite my friend Ramona to come as well. I found her washing her clothes and kept her company while she finished her laundry.
After I had taken a few more pictures, I ran down the hill where the women were gathered outside for the Bible study. I took turns sitting by Ramona and Lemona while Silvana led the study on the life of Joseph in the Old Testament.



After the study we sang a worship song in the Roma language and then Nicu, Silvana and I piled into the black Dacia and waved to the children who ran after the car.
"So. Did you enjoy your last day with the Gypsies?" Silvana asked. I smiled and nodded.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

How To Handle Stress

It's the new hot topic in town. The weather is changing so we have physical stress, exams are due so we have mental stress. Churches and the Body of Christ has numerous expectations so we have religious stress, boys are non-communicative and girls are confusing so we have relationshipal stress. The cafeteria food is getting old so we have digestive stress. Mom called (or didn't call) so we have family stress (disclaimer: this is not a statement said from personal experiance. I simply state what is happening on campus) The cousin went off the deep end and Auntie and Uncle are flipping out. So we have extended family stress. Yes, the two require two separate catagories.
She said this and he didn't say that, so does it mean they like each other, but wait I had tagged that one as MINE. Oh woops I just stuck my foot in my mouth, again. Do they wish they never met me?
The professors are stressed, the students are stressed, family members are stressed, the friends are stressed, I suspect even the dog is stressed.
Yippee!
So the answer is: Let's throw a stress-party! You must be ready to loose your mind and bring a snack to come. Costumes are preferable. No zombies though, please. Enough of us are pulling all-nighters to get the homework done, we don't need external reminders.

On a more serious note, a friend asked me today how she should handle all her stress. "Haha! FUNNY!" I thought to myself, as I have been asking myself the same question. I suggested praying and she looked around for her Old King James Bible to throw at me (believe me those things hurt when thrown!!) She couldn't find one, so told me to try again and added a few threats to my life (her dad is a marine and she does South American jujitsu on the side (not sure if that's how you spell jujitsue... jewjitsoo... jijitsew... hmmm...)
I asked how devotionals were going and she said fine. How was personal time with God? Fine. How was -
"FINE! Cut the Bible college crap and tell me how to get back in control of my life!"

Ahaa!

I cleared my throat. "Do you want me to give you the friendly college girly friend answer, or the Missions Major answer?"
(it's a running joke between us: She's an Apologetics major, so she'll be the one in a cushy office with plush leather and cherry-wood furniture creating theories and teaching them in a University somewhere, and I'll be out on the mission field actually living them out)
Her face began twisting itself so that it resembled something like a lemon, and with her eyebrows bouncing and her eyes squinting she said in something between a choke and a squeak,
"Give me the Missions Major answer!"
"You, my dear, are experiancing the lovely lesson of yeilding control to the Lord."
"Oh. Well, I didn't sign up for that class." She said, with an unspoken, "where do I send the email to remind the Professor that I'm not on His roll call list?"
"Uh, sorry, yes you did."
"WHEN?!"
"When you became a Christian. Consider yourself having enlisted in the Army as a grunt."
"No. Not Army. Especially not enlisted."
"Yup. Army. Consider it Army or the Concentration Camp." (Army being Life as a Christian, Concentration Camp being life without Christ)
"OKAY definately Army! Army is good. I can do Army. So how do I do army?"

So we talked some more and came up with a few basic 'rules':

1. Stop trying to keep control. You won't ever have it, even if you think you do.
Release it to God.
2. Don't try to go through it alone. Rely on God's strength and 'enlist' the help of the Body of Christ.
3. Ask others to pray for you
4. Pray if there is any sin you are unaware of (or aware of and not dealing with) that is keeping you from effectively hearing God's voice, and ask His help to deal with it.
5. Don't give up. Ask others to remind you to not give up. If you are in the will of God, then you will get through it one way or another!

We also discussed prayer journaling. A lot of times I forget that 1. it can be better than it is or 2. it could be a whole lot worse. If I journal my prayers, I can go back and read it and remind myself of God's bringing me through 'crisis' or when He has blessed me with a 'mountain top experiance.'

So there are the wise words from Dr. Rachel. Haha. That's a scary thought!

If you have any other brilliant insights as to how to handle stress, feel free to let me know!!
Now if you will excuse me, I have some homework I've been stressing about...

~Princess Ouch~

p.s. For those of you in need of a good laugh, here's this. I didn't write it:

GREAT TRUTHS THAT LITTLE CHILDREN HAVE LEARNED:
1) No matter how hard you try, you can't baptize cats.
2) When your mom is mad at your dad, don't let her brush your hair.
3) If your sister hits you, don't hit her back. They always catch the second
person
4) Never ask your 3-year old brother to hold a tomato.
5) You can't trust dogs to watch your food.
6) Don't sneeze when someone is cutting your hair.
7) Never hold a dust-buster and a cat at the same time.
8) You can't hide a piece of broccoli in a glass of milk.
9) Don't wear polka-dot underwear under white shorts.
10) The best place to be when you're sad is Grandpa's lap.


GREAT TRUTHS THAT ADULTS HAVE LEARNED:
1) Raising teenagers is like nailing jelly to a tree.
2) Wrinkles don't hurt.
3) Families are like fudge...mostly sweet, with a few nuts
4) Today's mighty oak is just yesterday's nut that held its ground.
5) Laughing is good exercise. It's like jogging on the inside.
6) Middle age is when you choose your cereal for the fiber, not the toy.

GREAT TRUTHS ABOUT GROWING OLD
1) Growing old is mandatory; growing up is optional.
2) Forget the health food. I need all the preservatives I can get.
3) When you fall down, you wonder what else you can do while you're down there.
4) You're getting old when you get the same sensation from a rocking chair
that you once got from a roller coaster.
5) It's frustrating when you know all the answers but nobody bothers to ask you
the questions.
6) Time may be a great healer, but it's a lousy beautician.
7) Wisdom comes with age, but sometimes age comes alone.

THE FOUR STAGES OF LIFE:
1 -- You believe in Santa Claus. 2 -- You don't believe in Santa Claus.
3 -- You are Santa Claus. 4 -- You look like Santa Claus.

SUCCESS:
At age 4 success is . . . not peeing in your pants.
At age 12 success is . . . having friends.
At age 17 success is . . having a driver's license.
At age 35 success is . . having money.
At age 50 success is .. . . having money.
At age 70 success is . .. having a drivers license.
At age 75 success is . . having friends.
At age 80 success is . . . not peeing in your pants.

Pass this on to someone who could use a laugh.
Always remember to forget the troubles that pass your way;
BUT NEVER forget the blessings that come each day.
Have a wonderful day with many smiles

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Spiritual Warfare on the Mission Field


"I do not always understand why God does things the way that He does. However, usually at a later time, God reveals the answer. I am thankful that we serve a God who does answer prayer, and I am thankful that "...in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose." (Romans 8:28 NIV).
On yet another occasion, Paulo and I were hosting a conference for FEBC radio listeners in Battambang city (in Cambodia). Church leaders from Battambang, Bateay Meanchey, and Siem Reap provinces attended. After the conference concluded, one of the leaders asked us to go to a home of a young woman who had been ill for some time to pray for her. The leader believed an evil spirit possessed the woman.
Six of us went. As we sat in a circle in the front room of the home, family members described for us the young woman's behavior. From the descriptions, it was obvious the woman had some serious problems. I asked the elder sister where the woman was.
"She is upstairs asleep," the sister said. "This is the first time in four days that she has slept. She has kept us up each night with her screaming and babbling." As the elder sister finished speaking, the young woman stuck her head over the railing of the second-floor balcony and looked directly into my eyes. Why she chose me, I do not know. A sudden feeling of fear came over me. Her eyes had a deep, penetrating look, and she obviously was disturbed about something.
I greeted the young woman in Khmer and asked her what her name was.
"My name is Sopheap," she said.
Iasked the elder sister whether that truly was the woman's name, and she affirmed that it was. I called Sopheap to come down. She immediately got up and came downstairs. She then grabbed a chair, placed it in front of me, sat down, and again looked directly at me. Again, I asked her what her name was.
"I am the Son of God," Sopheap said with a strange laugh.
"Are you really the Son of God?" I asked. She just stared at me and laughed some more. I could feel the tingling move up and down my body as I watched and listened to this young woman.
I do not know what prompted me to ask the next question, but it had to have been the Holy Spirit, because I was too afraid to think of it on my own.
"Is anyone else in there with you?" I asked. The young woman calmly looked at me and answered,
"Yes, there is."
I responded, "Who?"
The young woman called out several names in Cambodian, but I did not know to whom she referred. I looked at the elder sister for exmplanation, but she dais that she did not know the names either. None of the people in the room had ever heard the names.
At that point, I called the groupt o gather around Sopheap.
"We need to pray for her," I said. We all joined hands. I held Sopheap's right hand, and a Cambodian friend held her left hand. As we started to pray, it sounded as if Sopheap was praying with us. Then I realized that she was only babbling nonsense.
Our prayers intensified. After about five minutes, I felt Sopheap grip my hand firmly with increasing strength. My arm hurt. She was beginning to scream. We kept praying. Then suddenly Sopheap went limp and fell on the floor. She quickly opened her eyes, and I could see a difference in her appearance.
Sopheap spoke gently and calmly to us, telling us that she felt much better. We all sat down in our chairs. I looked at Sopheap and asked, "Do you believe in Jesus Christ? Have you asked Jesus Christ into your life?"
Sopheap replied, "Yes, I believe."
Then, God helped me to recall a passage of Scripture in Matthew that says:
"Now when the unclean spirit goes out of a man, it passes through waterless places seeking rest, and does not find it. Then it says, "I will return to my house, from which I came"; and when it comes, it finds it unoccupied, swept, and put in order. Then it goes and takes along with it seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they go in and live there; and the last state of that man becomes worse than the first."
(Matthew 12:43-45a)

I explained the passage to Sopheap and her family. Although none of us saw an evil spirit with our eyes, that day, we were all confident that an evil spirit had departed from Sopheap. Before we left, we rpayed with Sopheap once more. She asked the Holy Spirit to fill her life and fill where the evil spirit once resided.
Whenever I returned to Battambang after that experience, I was sure to ask how Sopheap was. Each report was that she was doing well. She had returned to her husband, was attending church regularly, and had not experienced any more problems with evil spirits.

Some people claim that these kinds of power encounters are normative in the Christian experience. I have a dear friend who, every time he meets me, will ask, "What sings and wonders are you seeing?" He takes the position that a ministry without signs and wonders is not valid.
I believe miraculous healings and deliverances from evil spirits are valid in Christian witness and ministry. God, at times, will perform miraculous deeds to bring people to proclaim Him as Savior and Lord. However, I am not convinced that signs, wonders, and power encounters are requisite for ministry. I see danger in that we easily can fall into performing Christian magic in an attempt to show the people that our "magic" is greater than theirs is.
Signs and wonders are not always needed for people to believe in Jesus. We cannot put God into human-made boxes and expect Him to work according to our designs and plans. Some people build a box and say that signs and wonders are no longer necessary, negating the miraculous work of God in their lives and in the lives of others. Others build a box and say that signs and wonders are necessary, often falling into the trap of becoming Christian magicians. I prefer rather to be attuned to the work of the Holy Spirit and rejoice in all that He does. To me, every heart that is turned from darkness to light by the power of the Holy Spirit is a miracle!
Svay Rieng

"The road id sudsty, the weather hot, and I never want to travel to this place again," I thought as I pulled into the town of Romeas Hek for the first time.
"Who would ever want to live in this barren land? The soil is no good. There are no trees, and all day long all you have to eat is dust, and more dust."
Saru was standing in front of the stone house when our now red clay-colored vehicle pulled up. Saru and several of the believers who met in this house regularly for worship greeted us as we stepped out of the car. It was mid-afternoon on a Saturday.
Saru is a short man even by Cambodian standards. I often remark that God called me to Asia because there I can look most people in the eye while talking with them. I am 5 feet 6 inches tall, the average hight of most Cambodians. I needed some time to talk with Saru, so he and I took a stroll toward the market place.
As we walked, I asked Saru what he had learned from the teaching on spiritual warfare that was presented in the most recent two-week training session of the Rural Leaders' Training Program. I also asked him whether he had a chance, upon returning to his home area, to use any of the principles he had learned. I specifically asked Saru this question because it was at his request that we had added this course of study to the program. As Saru shared with me that afternoon, I felt satisfied that he had understood the basic principles that had been taught. I also was pleased to hear that he had begun implementing those principles in his personal life and ministry.
As we approached the market, I asked Saru, "Do you want to share the gospel?" He nodded his head yes. "Let's go inside the market," I said. Now the Khmers in this small market had seen the westerners the United Nations stationed there to oversee elections or at least westerners on video. HOwever, none of those westerners spoke Khmer! As you might imagine, a large crowd soon was following me. I quickly began to feel like the pied piper in Robert Browning's poem, "The Pied Piper of Hamelin."
I stopped at a small stall where a woman was selling some kind of "num," or bread. I never had seen this type of bread, and I asked her what it was. It was made from rice flower and then deep-fried. I asked the price. It was inexpensive. "Let's see," I said to myself, "if I buy 10 of these huge pieces and then break them off for the children, I can probably feed about 50 kids. Do it!" I bought 10 pieces and began distributing them among the children. Soon about 50 children thronged around me. I became an even more popular fellow at that moment.
I asked the children, "Do you liket his bread? After you have eaten this bread, will you ever become hungry again? Have you ever heard about the Bread of LIfe?" Then I began to tell the children about how Jesus fed a large crowd of people. AFter Jesus fed them the bread, He told them a story about the Bread of LIfe, I said. Then I explained the meaning of the Bread of LIfe.
After I had talked with the children for about 10 minutes, I called Saru over and said, "Now it is your turn. Tell them more." The children listened attentively to Saru tell them about Jesus' love for them. I looked at the crowd and thougth again about hwo I stood outl ike a sore thumb. I was sure that within an hour everyone in the area would know that a westerner, who spoke Khmer, had come to town. Sata also was aware of our presence in the market, a reality I was soon to discover.
That evening we lodged in the home of an elder from the local Buddhist temple. The elder asked me to tell him and his wife about Jesus. FOr several hours, sitting on the front porch, Saru and I showed the elder the truth of God's Word from our Bibles. What a wonderful privilege it is to share Jesus!
Sunday morning came early, as to most mornings in Cambodia. Saru wanted me to visit every group in the district. I asked him how many groups he had started. "Only seven." he replied.
"Seven! You want me to visit seven places in one day?" I asked.
"Sure," he said. "If you just go to some of them the others will get upset that you did not go and visit them, so we either have to go to all of them or none of them." I sighed and said, "Okay let's get going." Once we started on our day's journey, it was not so bad. The groups were not that far apart, at least by car. By the time we reached the third group, I really was enjoying the day.
About 2 p.m., the heat sweltering, we pulled into the village of the sixth congregation. At least 50 people were waiting for us in the undersized room. As was the custom, we kicked off our shoes and sat on the floor. The signing was beautiful, more beautiful than we had heard from the previous groups. After a few songs, another young Khmner man traveling with me was asked to share his testimony.
As he began to talk, I noticed that others in the rom also began to talk. The louder he became,t he louder they became. In Cambodia, people often disrupt a speaker and others around them by talking back and forth, but I never had experienced anything like this. Finally, I was invited to speak. I shared the same story I had shared in the previous five groups. It was easier to do it this way! As I spoke, the people listened quietly. Then when I had finished, they began to ask questions, many of which I could not understand. I looked at Saru for help, but he said he had no idea what they were saying. Suddenly, this room of about 50 people became a place of confusion. I was shocked.
"What is going on here?" I asked Saru.
I leaned back against the wall. The young Khmer man who had shared his testimony also did. Simultaneously we both raised our eyes and looked toward the ceiling. When we saw it, our eyes darted to meet. Instantly, we knew what was wrong. A solid red flag hung at the top of the house. I forget the Khmer term for the flag, but I will never forget its meaning. It represents the spirit that has been invited to reside in the home and look after the family. Obviously, this spirit was angry that we were there sharing about Jesus. After all, our message could lead to the end of his reign within that home.
I stopped the meeting, went outside, and talked with the owner of the home. I described for him what had occurred inside. He responded,
"That flag means nothing now, because I believe in Jesus."
I asked him, "You invited that spirit into your house years ago, but after you became a believer did you ever, in the name of Jesus, tell that spirit to leave?"
He said he had not.
"In the name of Jesus, we need to command the spirit to leave," I told him. So, we all prayed that day. I told the owner to take down the red flag so that everyone would know that the spirit was no longer welcome in his house. Only the Holy Spirit of the living God was welcome.
Satan is the author of confusion and the father of all lies. What Satan had in mind as we shared the gospel that day was obvious. Cambodian people are spiritually attuned. They understand the spirit world because they keep in constant contact with spirits. Unfortunately, these are spirits of darkness, ambassadors of the Evil One.
Satan wants the Khmers to remain on his team. Those of us who have served among the Cambodian people know that; we understand that we must confront Satan's army of evil spirits. It is a spiritual battle we face daily, but how comforting it is to know that Christ already has won the war. The decision of each battle already has been decided in our favor if we will stand firm and claim the promises that are ours in Jesus. Even the father of lies dares not challenge the Holy Spirit directly. That is why he tries to confuse and decieve man instead. However, whenw e call upon the Holy Spirit, we call upon theg reatest power in the world, and Satan cannot stand.
Finding myself in a mass of confused people that sultry afternoon reminded me of Paul's words to the Corinthians.
"For thought we walk in the flesh, we do not war according tot he flesh, for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but divinely powerful for the destruction of fortresses. We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of GOd, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ, and we are ready to punish all disobedience, whenever your obedience is complete."
(2 Corinthians 10:3-6)
That afternoon speculations and a lofty spirit raised up against the knowledge of God was destroyed. Today a church that is growing numerically and spiritually continues to gather in that home.
.... "For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the roolers, against th e authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms."
(Ephesians 6:12 NIV)
Know your enemy, prepare for the battle, stand firm, and pray pray pray!
I still find myself at times forgetting the important lessons God taught me through these experiances, but one thing I try to remind myself each day ist hat the real enemy is Satan. He uses people through deceit and trickery. So often, it is difficult to spearate, but, if we truly want to have spiritual victory in our lives, we must learn who the real enemy is and remember that the victory already is secured."
From a chapter from the book Amazing Grace
Published by Mission Educational Books of Chennai, India
Written by R. Bruce Carlton Copyright 2000